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LadyCReturns

4/14/2008 10:06 am
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"Always view the World as it is, not as you would wish it to be"

This is an excellent phrase. It was made (in this form, although it has been used in various ways throughout time) in a discussion about BDSM - I know, I know, I do actually talk about it from time to time...

In this instance it was the presence of single males at certain fetish events and whether they were a necessary evil to support the night or a complete pain in the arse and should all be ejected into the gutter and have pus poured all over them.

Now, I personally quite like a well-behaved single guy at an event. But then I quite like badly behaved ones too because then we can all stand around being very self-important and shouting 'Rhubarb' a lot in a weary/indignant fashion.

I've taken a lot of time creating and managing events where men are welcome on their own, and making sure they go out into the scene a little more savvy on etiquette, hygiene (Oh yes - forced showers) and good manners.

I'd like to hear from single guys, and those that love/loathe them at an event (if you ever hear me say the word munch - shoot me. Really) about their experiences. Do you get left out? Do you wonder why?

Do you actively ignore single guys? Or are you welcoming? Funny stories? If I get enough good ones I'll tell you all about my favourite.


PS - I have noticed a funny thing - possibly single guy related. My watchers fall every time there is a drought of pictures of me on my blog. Quelle surprise.

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bodski
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4/14/2008 1:16 pm
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Firstly, I mostly come for the pics. So more please.

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LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:37 pm:
This would be insulting coming from anyone else but you. You cunt.

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sweetboytoy51
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4/14/2008 1:21 pm
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...pictures...?

Sorry, what was the question again?

Is any of this going to be on the exam?

cheers LadyC,
-sbt

p.s. Good to see you here again.


LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:38 pm:
Sadly I am ona borrowed PC these days and they are all snuggled up onanother hard drive. More to come.

And y'all already passed.

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bodski
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4/14/2008 2:09 pm
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Secondly, if I am single, I tend not to go to such events. I worry that I may become a 'single male at certain fetish events' and have people discuss whether or not to pour pus over me.

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LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:38 pm:
Wondered why you weren't coming on Saturday...

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t1122
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4/14/2008 3:08 pm
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I would assume that most people attending a fetish event on their own are pretty self confident. Combine self confidence, scantily clad bodies and a horny male and I imagine few would be surprised at the result. Would I be right in thinking that most of the pains are would be Doms??


LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:41 pm:
Amazingly not. They tend to be more of an online problem. It's needy self-obsessed, passive aggressive "Submissives" And I use that word advisedly - they simply think they've discovered a way of tricking Dominant women...oh dear....oh dear oh dear.

"You're submissive you say?"
"Yas Ma'am I am, and I want you to guide me deeper into my submissive side. It's all about your pleasure. Pamper. Blah."
"Gosh, that sounds like a craic, on your knees sonny Jim, I'm going to sit on your face - punishment indeed"

Good grief.

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Dreamer214
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4/14/2008 8:28 pm
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Good observations....


LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:42 pm:
As always. I have big eyes.

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DangYankee
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4/16/2008 3:59 pm
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I agree

You need some more pics - I love looking at you

I'll send you some of me and the new horse if you send me some of you


LadyCReturns replies on 4/22/2008 12:43 pm:
I WANT MY BOOK!

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bodski
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4/22/2008 11:41 pm
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Thirdly, I do not have a problem with people hanging around and watching, but I do have a problem when they think it is ok to touch my property. This is a problem I have only noticed in London.

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LadyCReturns replies on 4/23/2008 6:14 am:
I hope that's not me! I very much enjoyed your property...

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bodski
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4/23/2008 2:37 pm
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Of course I don't mean you, silly. I enjoyed you enjoying her and girly did too.

Fourthly, wankymen confuse me. They often have small limp willies. The small but is one thing, but why walk around wanking a soft cock.

It just looks bad.

Well, more than that, it is bad, necessary evil on balance I think.

People in general are a necessary evil.

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